If you’ve ever had suspicions that your husband is cheating, one woman with a lot of experience knows what to look for
Whether it’s just a gut feeling or maybe they’ve strayed before, sometimes you just get the fear that your spouse might be cheating.
Now one woman who considers herself an expert when it comes to sleeping with married men, has given the number one sign that they might be playing away.
It’s never nice to find out that someone has cheated, but while you might think ignorance is bliss, one woman says there’s a major tell that gives many cheaters away.
Micki Daniels is a former escort who spent more then a decade with many married clients.
Apparently, it all boils down to how protective your partner is of their phone.
She told the Mail: “If he is possessive of his phone, avoids answering calls in front of you, or gets mad when you ask to use it, he’s hiding something.”
Micki says social media makes it easier than ever to cheat and has caused temptation to increase.
Keep an eye out for added security measures like adding new passwords or pins to a device, or no longer allowing you access to it if they did before.
Creating new and especially secret social media accounts are also a red flag, says Micki.
Another sign to look out for is if they start to pick petty fights for no reason, warns Micki: “Cheaters pull away or instigate petty fights so they can have a ‘time out.’”
They then use the following ‘cooling-off’ period to meet with their secret partners.
If there’s no effort at all after to kiss and make up, that’s another glaring red flag.
Daniels insists: “If they come back and try to sweep things under the rug, you should reconsider what they were really up to.”
There can be differences in behaviour in their routine too.
Micki says if a man rushes to get in the shower immediately after arriving home, he could be trying to get rid of any physical evidence he’s been unfaithful.
It’s the same if he runs to get washed off straight after intimacy: “Post-sex affection is linked to deepening connection between partners, so if he’s prioritizing a shower, perhaps he’s just having sex out of obligation.”
If he’s suddenly changed his look too or invested in nicer clothing, something else might be up: “When a cheater is on the prowl, they will up the ante by improving their physical presentation.”
Older men often get caught out thanks to bank statements or unusual spending, says Micki: “Younger men tend to be more cautious and don’t leave the same paper trail, but older men may not cover their tracks as effectively.”
So, if they’re no longer idly scrolling next to you, are obsessed with showers and are suddenly dressing a lot nicer, you might have to have an awkward conversation.
